It's sort of like that question the owl used to ask in the 1970's Tootsie pop commercial. "How many licks does it take to get to the center of the Tootsie Pop? A-one, a-two, a-three! Crunch!" Well unfortunately it takes more than three scripts. Maybe you're thinking, "But wait, my first script is amazing! Of course I'll be ready after three. Or even after one! I'm a fast learner. Maybe it takes some writers a long time, but not me!" Well, let me tell you, that's most likely not the case.
I just read an article from Terry Rossio. He and his writing partner are the writers of the Pirates Of The Caribbean films, along with many other great films. He said it took he and his partner 13 scripts in five years before they felt ready to get anything out. Here's the link if you'd like to read it. http://www.wordplayer.com/columns/wp19.You.the.Expert.html And now he's got huge success. But it took him that long to be ready and good. You can't start out so-so and go to good in this business. When you hit the ground, you hit the ground running.
I even remember early on in my screenwriting career hearing a successful writer at a WGA event say it takes 10 years till you're ready. I remember thinking, oh god no, please not 10 years. I'm ready now! Well, I've been writing over 10 years and have at least 10 scripts give or take. But maybe only two that I would show, and the current one will be even better. So maybe I'll have three by then. Plus of course the indie that should be produced this year. But it really took me that long to be ready.
So before you panic and give up at the thought of it taking that long. Yes, it could take you less time. If you happen to not have a full time job. Or don't have kids or a spouse. Perhaps you are very fortunate to write 24/7 so you can devote all your time to studying your craft. Okay then yes, it won't take you 10 years. But for the rest of us, it's not going to be an overnight success thing.
I always thought of it as someone who wants to go to med school and become a doctor. They don't take one anatomy class and then feel ready to practice medicine. But for some reason, we know being a doctor needs the discipline and years to get good at their practice. But for screenwriting we think we can learn format and then, viola! Oscar worthy script! Sorry. Doesn't work that way. There's so much more to learn beside format. There's subtext. And plots. And high-concept ideas. And...the list goes on and on.
And no, I'm not saying being a screenwriter is as important as being a doctor. But they do say, "laughter is the best medicine". So it's a different kind of health care, right? Okay, maybe not. But it does take time to learn and study till you're ready to go out in the world with your skill, no matter what profession. And screenwriting is no different.
So take your time. Learn your craft. If you truly love writing. 10 years won't matter. You'll be doing it because of the love of writing. If you're looking to make an overnight success. Don't worry, you can, just after 5-10 years. See...I plan to be having my overnight success, any day now.
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
why do we think there's a limited amount of good?
For some reason, when good things happen to us, we assume something bad will happen next. Or if not bad, we think, well, I've had my good, that's obviously all I'll get! Or instead we think we don't deserve any good, if our friends are the ones to get it first. Especially as writers. We fear if our friend sells a script, then well, that's it, we won't. Because for some reason we think there's a limited amount of good. But there isn't! There's ample amount of good to go around. So if we're not receiving the amount of good that is abundant, then the only thing that's really getting in the way, is our thinking!
For instance, on my way home from walking my son to school, I found a penny and picked it up and thought, "Yay, good luck penny!" And then decided to use that to put good thoughts out into the world about the producer that's going to call me. But then I walked a few more feet and saw another good luck penny. But instead of thinking, "Wow, I'm blessed with double the good luck today." I almost felt like, uh-oh, there can't be that much good luck for me! But then I stopped myself and thought, "Wait, yes there is. There's ample amounts of good luck for me!" But at least I caught myself and turned the negative thinking around.
But are you turning your negative thinking around? Are you catching yourself when you think you don't deserve heaps of good luck or good fortune. Do you think if a friend sells a script or gets a manager, that you want to wish them bad luck or feel envious because that there can't possibly be good luck for you too? All the positive speakers I read or listen to all talk about that if we put out into the world well wishes for others, that that good energy comes back to us and see success too.
So ask yourself, what from your childhood made you think that there was only a short amount of wealth or success for you? I'm not exactly sure where my limited abundance thinking came from. If I search my mind and my past, I can maybe surmise that it had to do with the fact that my dad, who wasn't a great husband, held on to his wealth and only gave my mom a little, as a means to control her and keep her under his thumb. So I saw how my mom had a limited amount of wealth. She held on to it tightly for fear that there wouldn't be more where that came from.
But guess what? There is! And that kind of thinking is exactly what causes more of a limited amount of abundance. What if she had instead of thinking of a limited amount of abundance, had blessed my father with thoughts of abundance, and that changed his energy to stop being so miserly. Maybe it would have worked. Maybe not. But we won't know. All I do know, is that it's the place that created my thoughts of being a limited amount of abundance. But now I know the difference. So now I know that I can create abundance and enjoy it and have it. And now it's your turn. You can either believe there's a limited amount of abundance, and be right. Or see the unlimited amount of abundance in your world and watch it keep on coming. Which life would you rather have? I know which one I'm choosing.
For instance, on my way home from walking my son to school, I found a penny and picked it up and thought, "Yay, good luck penny!" And then decided to use that to put good thoughts out into the world about the producer that's going to call me. But then I walked a few more feet and saw another good luck penny. But instead of thinking, "Wow, I'm blessed with double the good luck today." I almost felt like, uh-oh, there can't be that much good luck for me! But then I stopped myself and thought, "Wait, yes there is. There's ample amounts of good luck for me!" But at least I caught myself and turned the negative thinking around.
But are you turning your negative thinking around? Are you catching yourself when you think you don't deserve heaps of good luck or good fortune. Do you think if a friend sells a script or gets a manager, that you want to wish them bad luck or feel envious because that there can't possibly be good luck for you too? All the positive speakers I read or listen to all talk about that if we put out into the world well wishes for others, that that good energy comes back to us and see success too.
So ask yourself, what from your childhood made you think that there was only a short amount of wealth or success for you? I'm not exactly sure where my limited abundance thinking came from. If I search my mind and my past, I can maybe surmise that it had to do with the fact that my dad, who wasn't a great husband, held on to his wealth and only gave my mom a little, as a means to control her and keep her under his thumb. So I saw how my mom had a limited amount of wealth. She held on to it tightly for fear that there wouldn't be more where that came from.
But guess what? There is! And that kind of thinking is exactly what causes more of a limited amount of abundance. What if she had instead of thinking of a limited amount of abundance, had blessed my father with thoughts of abundance, and that changed his energy to stop being so miserly. Maybe it would have worked. Maybe not. But we won't know. All I do know, is that it's the place that created my thoughts of being a limited amount of abundance. But now I know the difference. So now I know that I can create abundance and enjoy it and have it. And now it's your turn. You can either believe there's a limited amount of abundance, and be right. Or see the unlimited amount of abundance in your world and watch it keep on coming. Which life would you rather have? I know which one I'm choosing.
Monday, February 27, 2012
Up and coming screenwriters don't need to watch Oscars
So this is the first year in my life where I didn't go out of my way to watch the Oscars. No, I'm not bitter. I don't hold any contempt towards the movies that do well or the writers who have made it. In fact, I wish them all the best luck possible and hope that someday if I write something Oscar worthy, I too could be there. But, the real reason why I didn't watch it, is because I am devoting so much time and energy and passion into my own writing, that I didn't think I should spend that much time watching TV when I could be writing on my own stuff. So write is what I did.
Like I've said in other posts, this is really the year where I put my writing first. Even if it means not watching the Oscars. And because of that, for the first time ever, I've barely seen anything that was nominated. Usually I'm the one who can tell you what deserved to win and what doesn't, and if someone was ripped off or slighted by the Academy. But this year, because I am truly focusing so much on my writing, I have no idea what deserved to win. And I kind of like that I didn't know this year. Because it means, I'm not using my only free time to watch other people's stuff, but to write my own things.
I remember years ago a writer I knew hadn't seen anything out in the theater. And I thought it so odd. I thought, how in the world will he learn what is out there or what is good if he's not watching other things? Well, you can. And you should. But watch what's in your genre. Or movies similar to what you get hired to write. We can't spend all our time watching every movie. So pick and choose what you have time to watch. And perhaps that means, not much at all.
I did watch the opening scene with Billy Crystal. I thought it was super cute. I did look on the internet today to see who wore the best dresses. And of course what actually won. But last night, while most of the world was captivated by who was going to win, I was writing and working on my latest comedy. So instead of being excited by the winners. I was excited by new pages that I wrote that I loved. I think that's way better than any Oscar any day.
Like I've said in other posts, this is really the year where I put my writing first. Even if it means not watching the Oscars. And because of that, for the first time ever, I've barely seen anything that was nominated. Usually I'm the one who can tell you what deserved to win and what doesn't, and if someone was ripped off or slighted by the Academy. But this year, because I am truly focusing so much on my writing, I have no idea what deserved to win. And I kind of like that I didn't know this year. Because it means, I'm not using my only free time to watch other people's stuff, but to write my own things.
I remember years ago a writer I knew hadn't seen anything out in the theater. And I thought it so odd. I thought, how in the world will he learn what is out there or what is good if he's not watching other things? Well, you can. And you should. But watch what's in your genre. Or movies similar to what you get hired to write. We can't spend all our time watching every movie. So pick and choose what you have time to watch. And perhaps that means, not much at all.
I did watch the opening scene with Billy Crystal. I thought it was super cute. I did look on the internet today to see who wore the best dresses. And of course what actually won. But last night, while most of the world was captivated by who was going to win, I was writing and working on my latest comedy. So instead of being excited by the winners. I was excited by new pages that I wrote that I loved. I think that's way better than any Oscar any day.
Friday, February 24, 2012
good health makes for good writing
I'm going to be an advocate for good health and how it affects how you write. Sure, there are famous writers known for smoking and drinking and doing drugs of all sorts, and still being able to write the most amazing things. I can't tell you why and how they could accomplish such great feats on drugs. I guess it's just a different type of writing.
But what I can say, is that the more healthy you are, the better connection you can have to your own resources you can tap into. Think of it as tapping into your muses. We writers never really know where we get our inspiration or what tells us to write about one thing or another. Or why a certain character just seems to flow out of us. But I'll tell you, if you want that voice to be more clear and to have that connection to help the writing come pouring out of you, it's all from what kinds of things you put into your body.
If you feel good, you can write better. It's no different than putting better gasoline into a car and it running better. Food is our gasoline. And if we're eating healthy, getting exercise, getting proper sleep, we just have the ability to tap into the universe that's sending us our inspiration. I know it's worked for me.
And that even includes yoga or mediation. That's an even deeper level of tapping into the universe that unlocks our inspiration and creativity. I've been doing yoga two days a week regularly now, and boy, I just feel this extra magnetic connection to my inspiration as if it's flowing towards me. Maybe that's too hippie dippie for you to relate to. But hey, try it and see for yourself. You could surprise yourself!
I've also been doing things like walking outside more, instead of just being at the gym. Another way to tap into that universe of inspiration. Because the more nature we see, the more we're tapping into more creativity. It's sort of like for appreciating the world and nature, we get this added boost of inspiration and insight into our writing.
Now, I'm probably healthier than most people and most writers. I don't drink alcohol, I don't eat sugar, I'm gluten-free, juice every morning, eat organic, and workout 5 days a week. But I feel great. And feeling great allows me to have a lot of energy and a clear mind that allows me to stay up late and write when most people might have pooped out. So set yourself some health goals. See what you can accomplish. You just may surprise yourself and tap into some amazing writing resources you never knew were there.
But what I can say, is that the more healthy you are, the better connection you can have to your own resources you can tap into. Think of it as tapping into your muses. We writers never really know where we get our inspiration or what tells us to write about one thing or another. Or why a certain character just seems to flow out of us. But I'll tell you, if you want that voice to be more clear and to have that connection to help the writing come pouring out of you, it's all from what kinds of things you put into your body.
If you feel good, you can write better. It's no different than putting better gasoline into a car and it running better. Food is our gasoline. And if we're eating healthy, getting exercise, getting proper sleep, we just have the ability to tap into the universe that's sending us our inspiration. I know it's worked for me.
And that even includes yoga or mediation. That's an even deeper level of tapping into the universe that unlocks our inspiration and creativity. I've been doing yoga two days a week regularly now, and boy, I just feel this extra magnetic connection to my inspiration as if it's flowing towards me. Maybe that's too hippie dippie for you to relate to. But hey, try it and see for yourself. You could surprise yourself!
I've also been doing things like walking outside more, instead of just being at the gym. Another way to tap into that universe of inspiration. Because the more nature we see, the more we're tapping into more creativity. It's sort of like for appreciating the world and nature, we get this added boost of inspiration and insight into our writing.
Now, I'm probably healthier than most people and most writers. I don't drink alcohol, I don't eat sugar, I'm gluten-free, juice every morning, eat organic, and workout 5 days a week. But I feel great. And feeling great allows me to have a lot of energy and a clear mind that allows me to stay up late and write when most people might have pooped out. So set yourself some health goals. See what you can accomplish. You just may surprise yourself and tap into some amazing writing resources you never knew were there.
Thursday, February 23, 2012
Live the life you are meant to live
As a writer, I often find it hard to find the time to write as much as I'd like. But this year, I think I have been making a lot of more time for it. But that means at the expense of seeing friends for lunches or movies. I feel like a social outcast! But then I remember, wait, I'm a writer, I'm supposed to be a recluse! Isn't that what we think of writers when we hear someone is a writer? That they stay inside 24/7 and never leave their home except to maybe pick up a few cans of soup and bread.
Well, that's hardly the kind of writer I am. And perhaps it's not the kind of writer you are either. I'm a busy mom, one who likes to be involved in my son's school and his social life. I'm a supportive wife. Plus I also freelance as an ad writer in the day to make a living till my screenplays can support my livelihood. And I guess, as much as I hate to admit it, I'm a social butterfly! I like friends. I like people! I like meeting new and interesting ones! But that doesn't go with being a writer who has their nose to the grindstone, or should I say, laptop.
So that means, I have to give up seeing friends and being social. And I think in the past, I felt kind of bad about it. I felt bad that I didn't make time to have lunch or see my favorite movies that are nominated for that year's Oscars. Heck, I used to be the person who saw every single Academy nominated movie so I could tell you if it deserved to win!
But as Steve Jobs said in his Stanford's 2005 graduation speech, “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life … Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.” And he's so right! I couldn't have said it better myself.
So this year, I'm giving myself the ability to not see my friends, that yes, I do love and miss. To not see every movie that's out. To make time for friends that have kids so at least I'm seeing my child at the same time and it's not added into my own writing time. To allow my child to play with his dad at times or have quiet time so I can squeeze in even a few more minutes of writing time, when before I felt obligated to entertain him.
Because, yes, I am a writer. And I want to be a paid screenwriter. I'm serious about this becoming how I make my living. And anything else that doesn't push me towards that goal, does not belong. So I'm choosing to live the life I think I'm supposed to be living. And my real friends, will understand. And if they don't, that's just going to have to be okay too.
Well, that's hardly the kind of writer I am. And perhaps it's not the kind of writer you are either. I'm a busy mom, one who likes to be involved in my son's school and his social life. I'm a supportive wife. Plus I also freelance as an ad writer in the day to make a living till my screenplays can support my livelihood. And I guess, as much as I hate to admit it, I'm a social butterfly! I like friends. I like people! I like meeting new and interesting ones! But that doesn't go with being a writer who has their nose to the grindstone, or should I say, laptop.
So that means, I have to give up seeing friends and being social. And I think in the past, I felt kind of bad about it. I felt bad that I didn't make time to have lunch or see my favorite movies that are nominated for that year's Oscars. Heck, I used to be the person who saw every single Academy nominated movie so I could tell you if it deserved to win!
But as Steve Jobs said in his Stanford's 2005 graduation speech, “Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life … Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.” And he's so right! I couldn't have said it better myself.
So this year, I'm giving myself the ability to not see my friends, that yes, I do love and miss. To not see every movie that's out. To make time for friends that have kids so at least I'm seeing my child at the same time and it's not added into my own writing time. To allow my child to play with his dad at times or have quiet time so I can squeeze in even a few more minutes of writing time, when before I felt obligated to entertain him.
Because, yes, I am a writer. And I want to be a paid screenwriter. I'm serious about this becoming how I make my living. And anything else that doesn't push me towards that goal, does not belong. So I'm choosing to live the life I think I'm supposed to be living. And my real friends, will understand. And if they don't, that's just going to have to be okay too.
Monday, February 20, 2012
Slow and steady always gets you there
That seems to be the message that keeps popping up right now for me in my life. "Slow and steady wins the race". I'm not supposed to be the hare in the tortoise and the hare fable, but the tortoise. Sure that tortoise is taking his own sweet time. But he's moving toward the finish line the whole darn time! And so am I on my way to see my screenwriting career take off and flourish.
So sometimes I have to remind myself, that's okay. That I'm moving forward. That my goals are getting closer. That I'm constantly hitting new and more exciting markers in my screenwriting career. And that I can't focus on the fact that I haven't passed "the finish line". Especially with screenwriting. Because there are so many finish lines with that any way. Oh sure, if you win an academy award or are hanging out with Angelina Jolie because she starred in your movie, sure that might mean you've hit some pinnacle of success. But it's such a gray area of where in your success you are at. There's so many possibilities!
I dated this one actor friend who's in movies and has a TV show now. And he told a mutual friend recently, that Hollywood just forgets your last thing. It's always, what are you doing now? And I can tell that to him, he hasn't reached his level of success he has hoped for. But by all intensive purposes, so many actors would give their right arm to have the success he has.
So the key is always to keep moving forward. Keep hitting different road markers on your goal to success. And that there were bill many finish lines in your career of writing. And as long as you are moving forward and striving for more, and heading forward. Then don't worry if you're going slow and steady. Because remember, the hare does not win. The tortoise always does.
So sometimes I have to remind myself, that's okay. That I'm moving forward. That my goals are getting closer. That I'm constantly hitting new and more exciting markers in my screenwriting career. And that I can't focus on the fact that I haven't passed "the finish line". Especially with screenwriting. Because there are so many finish lines with that any way. Oh sure, if you win an academy award or are hanging out with Angelina Jolie because she starred in your movie, sure that might mean you've hit some pinnacle of success. But it's such a gray area of where in your success you are at. There's so many possibilities!
I dated this one actor friend who's in movies and has a TV show now. And he told a mutual friend recently, that Hollywood just forgets your last thing. It's always, what are you doing now? And I can tell that to him, he hasn't reached his level of success he has hoped for. But by all intensive purposes, so many actors would give their right arm to have the success he has.
So the key is always to keep moving forward. Keep hitting different road markers on your goal to success. And that there were bill many finish lines in your career of writing. And as long as you are moving forward and striving for more, and heading forward. Then don't worry if you're going slow and steady. Because remember, the hare does not win. The tortoise always does.
Sunday, February 19, 2012
Mother F'in Kenny Powers
Tonight's the first night of season 3 of Kenny Powers on HBO. If you haven't been watching it from season 1, it's time you did. He's the crassest most offensive jerk you'll ever love. He's a jerk, he's rude, he cusses every other word, he's full of himself, and yet, you love him and the show. And that, ladies and gentlemen, is what a great writer can accomplish.
He's an ex-pro baseball player that everyone loves to hate. He's bitter about the fact his career was over before it started. And yet, his ego is too big to admit this, so he just acts like a pompous jerk to cover up the fact that he's miserable that he's not a pro baseball player any more.
So how does a talented writer accomplish such a feat, to get us to love a total prick? It's not easy. But it can be done. And when it's done, it's beautiful.
One way is to add comedy so we are laughing at the jerky character. They don't know they're idiots. They think they look suave. And everyone in the TV show or movie, takes this character seriously. But the audience knows better. And when we can laugh at the jerk for being a jerk, we have sympathy for him.
It's also important to have moments of them being vulnerable. Something the series writers of Eastbound & Down do a wonderful job of. There are tender moments where Danny McBride admits to being lonely, to being washed up. And during those moments, we feel for him. We see how lonely he truly is. Those moments put us on his side. They're fleeting moments, and he's quickly a jerk again. But the tender side we got a glimpse of, lasts forever in our hearts.
It's also really important to have those "pet the cat" moments. Where the jerky character has those nice moments of them helping someone out, or putting someone before themselves. It warms us up to them and lets their faults slide.
And in the case of Eastbound & Down, every other character is so darn funny and the writing is just so darn funny throughout, that we're so busy laughing, we don't really get stuck caring that Danny McBride is really probably the biggest jerk ever!
So that's how you make a jerk character likable, ladies and gentlemen. Here's to the hopes we all can achieve that in our own works someday soon.
He's an ex-pro baseball player that everyone loves to hate. He's bitter about the fact his career was over before it started. And yet, his ego is too big to admit this, so he just acts like a pompous jerk to cover up the fact that he's miserable that he's not a pro baseball player any more.
So how does a talented writer accomplish such a feat, to get us to love a total prick? It's not easy. But it can be done. And when it's done, it's beautiful.
One way is to add comedy so we are laughing at the jerky character. They don't know they're idiots. They think they look suave. And everyone in the TV show or movie, takes this character seriously. But the audience knows better. And when we can laugh at the jerk for being a jerk, we have sympathy for him.
It's also important to have moments of them being vulnerable. Something the series writers of Eastbound & Down do a wonderful job of. There are tender moments where Danny McBride admits to being lonely, to being washed up. And during those moments, we feel for him. We see how lonely he truly is. Those moments put us on his side. They're fleeting moments, and he's quickly a jerk again. But the tender side we got a glimpse of, lasts forever in our hearts.
It's also really important to have those "pet the cat" moments. Where the jerky character has those nice moments of them helping someone out, or putting someone before themselves. It warms us up to them and lets their faults slide.
And in the case of Eastbound & Down, every other character is so darn funny and the writing is just so darn funny throughout, that we're so busy laughing, we don't really get stuck caring that Danny McBride is really probably the biggest jerk ever!
So that's how you make a jerk character likable, ladies and gentlemen. Here's to the hopes we all can achieve that in our own works someday soon.
Saturday, February 18, 2012
Why I wish I was writer Mike White
Okay, I don't really wish I was a male writer. But what I do feel, is that this guy is an awesome writer! I had no idea there was really one writer who's career I admired, until now. For those of you who don't know who he is, he's the creator of the newly acclaimed Enlightened on HBO, starring Laura Dern. But he also wrote Nacho Libre, with Jack Black, and School of Rock, again Jack Black. And Jennifer Aniston's indie, The Good Girl. Plus a whole lot more.
Now if you haven't seen Enlightened, please do. I just finished watching the first season on hbogo. And I loved it -- Each episode from start to finish. I'm so sad first season is over because I just want to see what happens next. He does such a great job of creating a character for Laura Dern. He makes her one of those characters that just goofs up in life but really wants to do well. And he puts her in these really uncomfortable settings that makes you feel for her, and reminds you of life. Those moments that we hate so much! That we wish would just go away. So you really root for the lead, even when she's screwing up. The other characters are all great and all acted out so wonderfully. And White stars in his show, plays his usual nebbishy kind of guy that you feel sorry for, but also like because he's just not comfortable in his own skin. It's just an impeccable show. Great job HBO!
And then of course, I'm a huge fan of School of Rock. It's beautiful written comedy 101. Great characters that you love and root for. Great humor. Redeeming story and characters. What's not to love! It's really one of those scripts I wish I had written. And White has a nice role in that too. When I saw him in this, I thought he was only an actor. It wasn't until now did I put things together and realize he was an actor AND writer.
Nacho Libre, may not be everyone's cup of tea. But if you like Jack Black, you'll love it. It's just silly humor that makes you smile.
And The Good Girl, one of those indie films that does such a great job of showing small town America and a wife in a miserable marriage and life, and how she deals with it. Just love the writing. Some people felt it was too dark. But I thought he did such a great job of capturing real life.
I think that's what he's great at in all the films and TV shows I've liked of his. What can I say? I'm a fan! Okay, so I'm not going to become Mike White any time soon. I think my husband would not be happy if I turned into a caucasian man. But I did want to give this talented writer some props. And point him out because perhaps, finding a writer I can admire, means there's some things I can learn from him. It's good to have someone to look up to and aspire to be. And if I can make movies that people like as much as I like in his, then that would be pretty darn cool.
Now if you haven't seen Enlightened, please do. I just finished watching the first season on hbogo. And I loved it -- Each episode from start to finish. I'm so sad first season is over because I just want to see what happens next. He does such a great job of creating a character for Laura Dern. He makes her one of those characters that just goofs up in life but really wants to do well. And he puts her in these really uncomfortable settings that makes you feel for her, and reminds you of life. Those moments that we hate so much! That we wish would just go away. So you really root for the lead, even when she's screwing up. The other characters are all great and all acted out so wonderfully. And White stars in his show, plays his usual nebbishy kind of guy that you feel sorry for, but also like because he's just not comfortable in his own skin. It's just an impeccable show. Great job HBO!
And then of course, I'm a huge fan of School of Rock. It's beautiful written comedy 101. Great characters that you love and root for. Great humor. Redeeming story and characters. What's not to love! It's really one of those scripts I wish I had written. And White has a nice role in that too. When I saw him in this, I thought he was only an actor. It wasn't until now did I put things together and realize he was an actor AND writer.
Nacho Libre, may not be everyone's cup of tea. But if you like Jack Black, you'll love it. It's just silly humor that makes you smile.
And The Good Girl, one of those indie films that does such a great job of showing small town America and a wife in a miserable marriage and life, and how she deals with it. Just love the writing. Some people felt it was too dark. But I thought he did such a great job of capturing real life.
I think that's what he's great at in all the films and TV shows I've liked of his. What can I say? I'm a fan! Okay, so I'm not going to become Mike White any time soon. I think my husband would not be happy if I turned into a caucasian man. But I did want to give this talented writer some props. And point him out because perhaps, finding a writer I can admire, means there's some things I can learn from him. It's good to have someone to look up to and aspire to be. And if I can make movies that people like as much as I like in his, then that would be pretty darn cool.
Friday, February 17, 2012
The goals yet met
There have been many things I've read that say we need to look at where we've come, not at where we are not, in order to see our success flourish. Sometimes it's hard to remember that because our goals are not yet met. But if we only focus on what we have yet to achieve, then that becomes our energy and we just attract more of not achieving it. And since that's exactly what we don't want, then we have to focus on what we DO want. So I thought today I'd post the things I've "achieved" in my writing and other areas of my life and hope to inspire others who will do the same with their own achievements. And then we will see as we increase the energy of our dreams on the way to success as more and more wonderful things come our way. I don't know about you, but I've seen a lot of great things this year so far, and I can only hope that happens for everyone else in this world.
1. Sold a short to Disney
2. Have a feature script at Disney Feature Animation
3. Had two scripts with Sony. One was rejected (boo!) The other is still there (yay!)
4. Pitched two sitcoms to the heads of ABC
5. Have an idea that two big production companies are interested in
6. Should be seeing my indie film made this year
7. Have another producer, huge producer, that wants to start working with me this year, as soon as we nail it down
8. Have a hubby that I love
9. Have a child I adore
10. Have a successful advertising career that keeps me busy and seems to be doing quite well even in a not so great economy
11. Have a home I love
12. Have a great dog and wonderful fish
13. Have my health
14. Have my mental faculties (even if not always sane, but that can be a good thing I think)
15. Love life
So, there you have it. A lot to be thankful for. A lot that I've achieved. A lot more I hope to achieve and that's okay too. Just read an article today on Huffington Post that talked about the uncertainty. And that if life was all mapped out for us, what would be the point? And that uncertainty is what makes us go after things in life. It's that moment before the success happens that we have to just sit in the silence and be patient until it arrives. So, here's to the uncertainty of the dreams we have yet to attain.
1. Sold a short to Disney
2. Have a feature script at Disney Feature Animation
3. Had two scripts with Sony. One was rejected (boo!) The other is still there (yay!)
4. Pitched two sitcoms to the heads of ABC
5. Have an idea that two big production companies are interested in
6. Should be seeing my indie film made this year
7. Have another producer, huge producer, that wants to start working with me this year, as soon as we nail it down
8. Have a hubby that I love
9. Have a child I adore
10. Have a successful advertising career that keeps me busy and seems to be doing quite well even in a not so great economy
11. Have a home I love
12. Have a great dog and wonderful fish
13. Have my health
14. Have my mental faculties (even if not always sane, but that can be a good thing I think)
15. Love life
So, there you have it. A lot to be thankful for. A lot that I've achieved. A lot more I hope to achieve and that's okay too. Just read an article today on Huffington Post that talked about the uncertainty. And that if life was all mapped out for us, what would be the point? And that uncertainty is what makes us go after things in life. It's that moment before the success happens that we have to just sit in the silence and be patient until it arrives. So, here's to the uncertainty of the dreams we have yet to attain.
Thursday, February 16, 2012
My Ode to Groundlings
So if you live in LA, you probably know what Groundlings is. Well, I can't say that for sure. As some friends at the ad agency I'm freelancing at this week, out of the three, only one had been there. But basically it's probably one of the top Improv places to study. And if you just like going to see comedy, then Saturday night shows are always a hoot. I highly recommend it.
I took Groundling's three intro classes years ago. No, I wasn't very good. Well, I wasn't bad. But you pitted me up against the actors, and well, they were better. But boy did I have fun. The reason I took the classes, is because I wanted to see if the improv classes would help with my writing. And boy did it! There's nothing like taking an improv class, or probably any acting class, to learn about characters. And Groundlings was no exception.
I learned that characters speak in the tone of who they are. That they see the world through that character's eyes and see the world from that view. I think this is a very important thing for any writer to learn and remember. Even in my writing group last night, one of the writers was so busy divulging the facts she wanted her characters to spew, she forgot that they have to embody their own personalities and set of seeing the world. And from that, that's how they see everything and act towards everything around them.
I also learned that each character talks the way that certain character would talk. Whether it's a Texan who likes living on a farm, or a Princess from England. Those two characters have a way about them, and that's who they are from start to finish. Even if they grow as your story goes on, they still embody those traits.
Another great thing that I learned in the classes, was to not get so stuck in my head. It's why I like writing, because I don't have to be funny right then and there. I can sit and rewrite until I'm funny. But it was really great to be forced into doing something right then and there. Oh sure, the actors were better at that, because they'd been schooled in doing that for years. But that's okay. I didn't try and compete. They were just good exercises in forcing me to just let go and not judge what I was saying or doing. I think sometimes it's important to do that with any writing. We writers tend to be so critical of ourselves and our writing. I think it's good to not always be that way and to just let things out, just let it flow.
And really, Groundlings was just fun. I really enjoyed being around such talent, even at the beginning stages of their improv career.
Now, all the big comedic actors have probably came through Groundlings at one time or another. Like Jimmy Fallon, Will Forte, Cheryl Hines, Mindy Sterling, Kristin Wiig. The list goes on and on! So, as you can see, the place is pretty darn good. And like I said, if you're up for some laughing, I highly recommend a show. So, if you do go, be sure to tell them I sent you! http://www.groundlings.com/shows/now-playing.aspx#
I took Groundling's three intro classes years ago. No, I wasn't very good. Well, I wasn't bad. But you pitted me up against the actors, and well, they were better. But boy did I have fun. The reason I took the classes, is because I wanted to see if the improv classes would help with my writing. And boy did it! There's nothing like taking an improv class, or probably any acting class, to learn about characters. And Groundlings was no exception.
I learned that characters speak in the tone of who they are. That they see the world through that character's eyes and see the world from that view. I think this is a very important thing for any writer to learn and remember. Even in my writing group last night, one of the writers was so busy divulging the facts she wanted her characters to spew, she forgot that they have to embody their own personalities and set of seeing the world. And from that, that's how they see everything and act towards everything around them.
I also learned that each character talks the way that certain character would talk. Whether it's a Texan who likes living on a farm, or a Princess from England. Those two characters have a way about them, and that's who they are from start to finish. Even if they grow as your story goes on, they still embody those traits.
Another great thing that I learned in the classes, was to not get so stuck in my head. It's why I like writing, because I don't have to be funny right then and there. I can sit and rewrite until I'm funny. But it was really great to be forced into doing something right then and there. Oh sure, the actors were better at that, because they'd been schooled in doing that for years. But that's okay. I didn't try and compete. They were just good exercises in forcing me to just let go and not judge what I was saying or doing. I think sometimes it's important to do that with any writing. We writers tend to be so critical of ourselves and our writing. I think it's good to not always be that way and to just let things out, just let it flow.
And really, Groundlings was just fun. I really enjoyed being around such talent, even at the beginning stages of their improv career.
Now, all the big comedic actors have probably came through Groundlings at one time or another. Like Jimmy Fallon, Will Forte, Cheryl Hines, Mindy Sterling, Kristin Wiig. The list goes on and on! So, as you can see, the place is pretty darn good. And like I said, if you're up for some laughing, I highly recommend a show. So, if you do go, be sure to tell them I sent you! http://www.groundlings.com/shows/now-playing.aspx#
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Screenwriting: In honor of Valentine's Day
Why I love screenwriting. Let me count the ways.
I love creating characters that can sometimes take on a life of their own and tell me a story I didn't even know I had inside of me.
I love creating plots, that get so complicated that even I'm excited to see how the story ends.
I love the idea that some day, my words will be acted out by actors I admire on the big screen.
I love that when someone with talent reads my words, it sounds even better than I ever envisioned.
I love that when it's time to do a rewrite, even if I feel like there's no way I can fix the problems, with a lot of sweat and toil, I always do.
I love that at times I love screenwriting and times it drives me mad, and that's exactly why I love it.
I love the sound of hearing people laugh because I wrote something they thought was funny.
I love pushing the envelope to see how far I can go with humor.
I love when someone tells me I'm a really good writer. That never gets old and never will.
I love so much about screenwriting. What about you?
I love creating characters that can sometimes take on a life of their own and tell me a story I didn't even know I had inside of me.
I love creating plots, that get so complicated that even I'm excited to see how the story ends.
I love the idea that some day, my words will be acted out by actors I admire on the big screen.
I love that when someone with talent reads my words, it sounds even better than I ever envisioned.
I love that when it's time to do a rewrite, even if I feel like there's no way I can fix the problems, with a lot of sweat and toil, I always do.
I love that at times I love screenwriting and times it drives me mad, and that's exactly why I love it.
I love the sound of hearing people laugh because I wrote something they thought was funny.
I love pushing the envelope to see how far I can go with humor.
I love when someone tells me I'm a really good writer. That never gets old and never will.
I love so much about screenwriting. What about you?
Thursday, February 9, 2012
All signs point to success
Do you ever feel like life sometimes seems so random? That we make plans and things happen, but that we don't really have control in the outcome? Well, it isn't random. There are things that happen, that we may not understand, that happen for a purpose for us to reach our success. But do you open yourself up so that life can bring you the wonderful things that are waiting for you?
Good things happen to me all the time. People that could propel my career constantly enter my life, and it's not an accident. But people I know are always amazed by it. But I create it by putting those thoughts into my mind, that I'll meet these people, that these doors will be open. And by doing this, and sending these thoughts out into the world, I watch the events that can help me come my way. My producer friend yesterday even said, "You're like this success magnet!" Because people just come into my life at the most oddest and unexpected ways.
Like yesterday, I was at this job seminar, because I'm a freelancer and always looking for new gigs. And I wasn't expecting much out of it. And in fact, I didn't learn anything from it. But I did meet this really awesome TV producer, and a mom who's daughter might be great for my horror film I'm producing. And that's why my friend was in awe. Because I do seem to meet people when others don't. I didn't go to network at this thing at all, but to listen to the speaker. But look what fell into my lap instead.
And I met with the producer for coffee today, because he seemed like a great guy and I wanted to talk to him about future stuff we could work on. So we're going to try and come up with shows we can pitch together. But who would have thought? It's surely not what I expected. But at the same time, I open myself to those kind of things to happen. I'm constantly on the look to see what great things the universe is going to bring me.
So ask yourself, are you open to talking to people you don't know? Do you look for interesting people and if you're drawn to talk to them, do you? Life sometimes puts these people on our paths, but it's up to us to strike up a conversation with them. It's not going to just be handed to us without us making a move.
I remember on one occasion, years and years ago when I was in Bali, I was having this career crises as I wondered if I should pursue screenwriting. I knew it would be a long road to study the craft, and even though I wanted to do it, I wondered if it was really worth it. Wondered if I should just stay the course with advertising instead. I was really torn.
So I go to this nightclub, where there's nothing but young people dancing and getting their drink on. All except for this one 60 year old man, with a silver, long beard and pony tail, playing the flute. He stood out like a sore thumb. But he seemed so happy! Most the kids kind of snickered at him, and ignored him. But I thought, how cool is it that this guy is doing what he loves, with no care in the world. So I told my friends, "I'm going to dance with that guy." I was so impressed with his ease in his own skin. And as soon as I started dancing with him, he tells me in a prophetic way, "You're going through something." I was shocked! How did he know?! He goes on to tell me, "You need to believe in yourself. And if you do, you can achieve anything you want." I couldn't believe it! This man said exactly what I needed to hear. And I agreed then and there that this was no coincidence and I never looked back on my screenwriting. But if I had been like every other person in there, I would have ignored my fate.
So ask yourself, are you ignoring yours? Are there signs in your life that you pretend they didn't happen? And do you ignore your gut feelings to connect with a stranger that says something that really strikes a chord with you, but then you just brush it off as probably something silly. I just want to say, don't! There are sign posts on the path of our life that will guide us to success. But it's up to us to follow them. And if we don't, we will find we've gone the wrong way.
So it's up to you. Do you want to achieve your success or not? You just need to be open to it, and follow the signs.
Good things happen to me all the time. People that could propel my career constantly enter my life, and it's not an accident. But people I know are always amazed by it. But I create it by putting those thoughts into my mind, that I'll meet these people, that these doors will be open. And by doing this, and sending these thoughts out into the world, I watch the events that can help me come my way. My producer friend yesterday even said, "You're like this success magnet!" Because people just come into my life at the most oddest and unexpected ways.
Like yesterday, I was at this job seminar, because I'm a freelancer and always looking for new gigs. And I wasn't expecting much out of it. And in fact, I didn't learn anything from it. But I did meet this really awesome TV producer, and a mom who's daughter might be great for my horror film I'm producing. And that's why my friend was in awe. Because I do seem to meet people when others don't. I didn't go to network at this thing at all, but to listen to the speaker. But look what fell into my lap instead.
And I met with the producer for coffee today, because he seemed like a great guy and I wanted to talk to him about future stuff we could work on. So we're going to try and come up with shows we can pitch together. But who would have thought? It's surely not what I expected. But at the same time, I open myself to those kind of things to happen. I'm constantly on the look to see what great things the universe is going to bring me.
So ask yourself, are you open to talking to people you don't know? Do you look for interesting people and if you're drawn to talk to them, do you? Life sometimes puts these people on our paths, but it's up to us to strike up a conversation with them. It's not going to just be handed to us without us making a move.
I remember on one occasion, years and years ago when I was in Bali, I was having this career crises as I wondered if I should pursue screenwriting. I knew it would be a long road to study the craft, and even though I wanted to do it, I wondered if it was really worth it. Wondered if I should just stay the course with advertising instead. I was really torn.
So I go to this nightclub, where there's nothing but young people dancing and getting their drink on. All except for this one 60 year old man, with a silver, long beard and pony tail, playing the flute. He stood out like a sore thumb. But he seemed so happy! Most the kids kind of snickered at him, and ignored him. But I thought, how cool is it that this guy is doing what he loves, with no care in the world. So I told my friends, "I'm going to dance with that guy." I was so impressed with his ease in his own skin. And as soon as I started dancing with him, he tells me in a prophetic way, "You're going through something." I was shocked! How did he know?! He goes on to tell me, "You need to believe in yourself. And if you do, you can achieve anything you want." I couldn't believe it! This man said exactly what I needed to hear. And I agreed then and there that this was no coincidence and I never looked back on my screenwriting. But if I had been like every other person in there, I would have ignored my fate.
So ask yourself, are you ignoring yours? Are there signs in your life that you pretend they didn't happen? And do you ignore your gut feelings to connect with a stranger that says something that really strikes a chord with you, but then you just brush it off as probably something silly. I just want to say, don't! There are sign posts on the path of our life that will guide us to success. But it's up to us to follow them. And if we don't, we will find we've gone the wrong way.
So it's up to you. Do you want to achieve your success or not? You just need to be open to it, and follow the signs.
Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Writers on the move
So sometimes writers have to do things to make a living until their careers have taken off. You know that pesky thing called paying the bills can get in the way. And sometimes writers have jobs they like, other times not so much. And then sometimes writers use their creative mind to come up with some really cool way to express themselves and make a living. Well, that has happened with two very talented writers I know. One is a talented screenwriter who has sold somethings to Sony and HBO. Her business partner is a talented creative writer who I can't wait to see her work published somewhere wonderful someday.
So they put their minds together and came up with an organic ice cream truck called The S'cream Truck. They have partnered up with Beachy Cream Ice Cream, an organic ice cream store on the westside in Los Angeles, to help them create their delicious ice creams.
Their signature products are something called S'cream balls, with flavors like Vanilla Chocolate Madness or Peanut Butter Chocolate Nuttiness. They also have ice cream sandwiches with flavors like Bitchen Chocolate Chocolate, which is the one my son wants to order, because he laughs every time he says it, because he knows he's not allowed to cuss! haha. I guess this time it's okay!
Now, I don't know about you, but there are so many times I have come up with really interesting inventions or unique business ideas. But to actually see it through and actually launch my idea, is a whole other story. So I'm so impressed that these two ladies had the idea to not only come up with the idea of a revamped and way cooler ice cream truck than we had as kids, but actually turn it into a business! They even plan to do parties, events, Bar Mitzvahs, anything where ice cream would add to the fun. Gosh, if only I can think of a reason to host a party!
Wednesday, Feb 7, is their first launch day/grand opening. And I for one, am sure to head over there and try these awesome sounding ice creams. I'm sure it will be a huge success. If you think you're up for delicious ice cream, then head over there too.
They will be at San Vicente between Gorham and Montana. Brentwood, 90049, from 12:30-4:30. But if you are not fortunate to make the launch, don't worry. If you live in LA, be sure to keep an eye out for the ice cream truck we wish we had as kids. Forget nostalgia. Our kids are going to have it way better with The S'cream Truck!
Oh, and if you aren't already, be sure to follow them on twitter and facebook!
So they put their minds together and came up with an organic ice cream truck called The S'cream Truck. They have partnered up with Beachy Cream Ice Cream, an organic ice cream store on the westside in Los Angeles, to help them create their delicious ice creams.
Their signature products are something called S'cream balls, with flavors like Vanilla Chocolate Madness or Peanut Butter Chocolate Nuttiness. They also have ice cream sandwiches with flavors like Bitchen Chocolate Chocolate, which is the one my son wants to order, because he laughs every time he says it, because he knows he's not allowed to cuss! haha. I guess this time it's okay!
Now, I don't know about you, but there are so many times I have come up with really interesting inventions or unique business ideas. But to actually see it through and actually launch my idea, is a whole other story. So I'm so impressed that these two ladies had the idea to not only come up with the idea of a revamped and way cooler ice cream truck than we had as kids, but actually turn it into a business! They even plan to do parties, events, Bar Mitzvahs, anything where ice cream would add to the fun. Gosh, if only I can think of a reason to host a party!
Wednesday, Feb 7, is their first launch day/grand opening. And I for one, am sure to head over there and try these awesome sounding ice creams. I'm sure it will be a huge success. If you think you're up for delicious ice cream, then head over there too.
They will be at San Vicente between Gorham and Montana. Brentwood, 90049, from 12:30-4:30. But if you are not fortunate to make the launch, don't worry. If you live in LA, be sure to keep an eye out for the ice cream truck we wish we had as kids. Forget nostalgia. Our kids are going to have it way better with The S'cream Truck!
Oh, and if you aren't already, be sure to follow them on twitter and facebook!
Monday, February 6, 2012
Of Mice and then some
Every so often you see a movie that has something so special and shall I say, tender, about it. Something that really pulls you in and makes you want to follow the characters and get a glimpse of their world. Well, I saw that kind of movie on Netflix instant stream. It's called Main Street, and it was written by Horton Foote. You might not know his name off-hand. But you do know his movies. He wrote Of Mice And Men, To Kill A Mockingbird, and a whole other slew of things you may or may not know. It starred Ellen Burstyn, Colin Firth, Orlando Bloom, Patricia Clarkson, Amber Tamblyn, and Andrew McCarthy. I know! What talent right? I don't know why I had never heard of this movie before. And truthfully, I think people who like good writing, really should see this film.
The story was about a small southern town that was once prosperous because of the tobacco industry, and now has not much left to offer since tobacco is no longer big business. It's about the people who have stayed, the people who are dying to get out, and what becomes of all of those who don't. Ellen Burstyn plays the character that the story really focuses on, having been born into the tobacco industry by her father. Now she's left with an empty warehouse and no money to pay her rent on her large southern home. She's pained by having once been from a wealthy family, and now saddened she's run out of money.
I don't want to give anything else away, as I really enjoyed watching it all unfold and think others will too. So I just wanted to give it a plug, because good writing really deserves to be honored. If you see this movie or have seen it, please let me know. I'd be curious your thoughts on it too.
The story was about a small southern town that was once prosperous because of the tobacco industry, and now has not much left to offer since tobacco is no longer big business. It's about the people who have stayed, the people who are dying to get out, and what becomes of all of those who don't. Ellen Burstyn plays the character that the story really focuses on, having been born into the tobacco industry by her father. Now she's left with an empty warehouse and no money to pay her rent on her large southern home. She's pained by having once been from a wealthy family, and now saddened she's run out of money.
I don't want to give anything else away, as I really enjoyed watching it all unfold and think others will too. So I just wanted to give it a plug, because good writing really deserves to be honored. If you see this movie or have seen it, please let me know. I'd be curious your thoughts on it too.
Sunday, February 5, 2012
Be your own champion
So this weekend was a great learning lesson for writers with all the sports going on. Sports and writers? Yes, let me explain.
First it was my son's soccer State Cup tournament, and of course the Super Bowl. Now, I'm really happy the Giants won. No, I'm not a football fan. But my hubby and son are Giants fans. To the point where my husband has been stressed all week. So yes, I am happy they won. But my son's team, they didn't win, but was also a great learning lesson for them. They played hard, they never gave up, but in the end, they lost. But we were so proud of them for giving it all they could.
And you could say the same for the Patriots. It was a close game. It could have gone either way, even up to the last moment. But when you see teams of those caliber, they bring it. Oh, they bring it! Both teams fight for that win. They play hard, they fight hard. But only one team gets to win.
So what is the consistent theme in my son's game and the Super Bowl? Play hard. But in order to play hard, you've got to be in the game. And whatever it takes, don't give up. And believe you can, no matter what. Maybe you won't win, but you'll never know unless you try and give it all you can.
So for screenwriters who dream of that success, you can achieve it, but only if you're in the game. So ask yourself, are you taking classes? Are you reading screenwriting books and scripts? Are you signing up for screenwriting websites? Entering contests? What are you doing to prove that you will do anything to make your dream come true? You have to fight for that dream. You have to make sacrifices and work hard. If you want it, you can achieve it. But you have to give it your all. So go out there, and do it! You might just end up a champion.
First it was my son's soccer State Cup tournament, and of course the Super Bowl. Now, I'm really happy the Giants won. No, I'm not a football fan. But my hubby and son are Giants fans. To the point where my husband has been stressed all week. So yes, I am happy they won. But my son's team, they didn't win, but was also a great learning lesson for them. They played hard, they never gave up, but in the end, they lost. But we were so proud of them for giving it all they could.
And you could say the same for the Patriots. It was a close game. It could have gone either way, even up to the last moment. But when you see teams of those caliber, they bring it. Oh, they bring it! Both teams fight for that win. They play hard, they fight hard. But only one team gets to win.
So what is the consistent theme in my son's game and the Super Bowl? Play hard. But in order to play hard, you've got to be in the game. And whatever it takes, don't give up. And believe you can, no matter what. Maybe you won't win, but you'll never know unless you try and give it all you can.
So for screenwriters who dream of that success, you can achieve it, but only if you're in the game. So ask yourself, are you taking classes? Are you reading screenwriting books and scripts? Are you signing up for screenwriting websites? Entering contests? What are you doing to prove that you will do anything to make your dream come true? You have to fight for that dream. You have to make sacrifices and work hard. If you want it, you can achieve it. But you have to give it your all. So go out there, and do it! You might just end up a champion.
What's your plan to succeed?
What are you doing to move your writing career forward? Are you writing a new script? Are you working on an outline? Are you entering contests? Contacting managers? It doesn't matter what you're doing, but be doing something!
Jack Canfield in his Success Principles book talks about we should do 5 things every day that help us achieve our goal. Now, if I'm seeking a manager, contacting 5 managers every day, sure, could make it happen. But a lot of times managers don't want to hear from writers that have yet to succeed. So screenwriting doesn't always fit with that mold. But, there are ways around that. Perhaps it's taking another class to get your screenplays even stronger, so that you can enter contests, so that you can get the attention of those managers. Or maybe it's finding a new writing group, one that can really challenge you and make you a better writer. The key is to evaluate what your situation is, and ask yourself if it's propelling you towards the success you want.
Or maybe it's making a list of people you are friends with, or friends of friends with, who know people who know managers. A talented writing friend of mine queried a lot of managers and no one was interested. But then he found out a friend of his knew this manager, and that was how he got in. So even just moving forward on your goal can set the universe into action and make things happen in a way you didn't predict. So don't worry about wasting your time. You're never wasting your time if you're trying to achieve a goal and you're taking steps towards it.
Just have a plan, be clear about what you want, write it down, and go after it, every day. Eventually you will succeed.
Jack Canfield in his Success Principles book talks about we should do 5 things every day that help us achieve our goal. Now, if I'm seeking a manager, contacting 5 managers every day, sure, could make it happen. But a lot of times managers don't want to hear from writers that have yet to succeed. So screenwriting doesn't always fit with that mold. But, there are ways around that. Perhaps it's taking another class to get your screenplays even stronger, so that you can enter contests, so that you can get the attention of those managers. Or maybe it's finding a new writing group, one that can really challenge you and make you a better writer. The key is to evaluate what your situation is, and ask yourself if it's propelling you towards the success you want.
Or maybe it's making a list of people you are friends with, or friends of friends with, who know people who know managers. A talented writing friend of mine queried a lot of managers and no one was interested. But then he found out a friend of his knew this manager, and that was how he got in. So even just moving forward on your goal can set the universe into action and make things happen in a way you didn't predict. So don't worry about wasting your time. You're never wasting your time if you're trying to achieve a goal and you're taking steps towards it.
Just have a plan, be clear about what you want, write it down, and go after it, every day. Eventually you will succeed.
Saturday, February 4, 2012
The words every writer needs to know
Persistence and patience. Those are my two theme words for the year. Every time I think I learn patience, I find there's more to learn. It's sort of like a noun word to the infinity. No matter how patient you are, there's always more patience to be had!
So I've been waiting for the lunch with the one producer I'm super excited to start working with. That's where the persistence comes in. For those of you who haven't been my blog follower from day one, I got a phone call from a huge producer right before Christmas, telling me he wants to take me to lunch and pitch me ideas. And I get to pick what I want to work on. It's like that one thing every new writer waits for. The one thing that brings you into the real game of screenwriting. So he says, call me in January, and we'll go to lunch. And that he can't wait to work with me, because I'm a very talented writer. The best thing I ever heard yet in my writing career! So, January comes along, and I make lunch plans, that keep getting postponed. So now we're in February. But that's okay. I know how to be persistent.
So I called on Friday to reschedule. His assistant knows who I am. Says yes, you're on my list of people to call and set up an appointment with. I'm on a list! That's gotta be good. There's a list. And I'm on it! He explains how busy said producer has been. But will see what he can set up and get back to me. So that at least makes me feel good. And lets me know, games on! I'm on a list, I'm supposed to have plans at some point. So that just gave me the permission to be as persistent as I have to be.
And that's where the patience comes in too. Sure the lunch is not in January like originally planned. But oh well. I keep working on my latest comedy. I keep sending out scripts. I keep working on the movie I'm starting to produce. And I keep calling said producer till we get that lunch. Or I should say, call assistant. He's about to become my new best friend.
So I've been waiting for the lunch with the one producer I'm super excited to start working with. That's where the persistence comes in. For those of you who haven't been my blog follower from day one, I got a phone call from a huge producer right before Christmas, telling me he wants to take me to lunch and pitch me ideas. And I get to pick what I want to work on. It's like that one thing every new writer waits for. The one thing that brings you into the real game of screenwriting. So he says, call me in January, and we'll go to lunch. And that he can't wait to work with me, because I'm a very talented writer. The best thing I ever heard yet in my writing career! So, January comes along, and I make lunch plans, that keep getting postponed. So now we're in February. But that's okay. I know how to be persistent.
So I called on Friday to reschedule. His assistant knows who I am. Says yes, you're on my list of people to call and set up an appointment with. I'm on a list! That's gotta be good. There's a list. And I'm on it! He explains how busy said producer has been. But will see what he can set up and get back to me. So that at least makes me feel good. And lets me know, games on! I'm on a list, I'm supposed to have plans at some point. So that just gave me the permission to be as persistent as I have to be.
And that's where the patience comes in too. Sure the lunch is not in January like originally planned. But oh well. I keep working on my latest comedy. I keep sending out scripts. I keep working on the movie I'm starting to produce. And I keep calling said producer till we get that lunch. Or I should say, call assistant. He's about to become my new best friend.
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